25 Articles About Being a Parent, Partner, and Provider

These 25 articles are more than just entries in a blog – they’re footprints in the sand along the journey of my life up to this point, marking moments of love, loss, growth, and grit.

Written across two decades, each piece captures the evolving story of what it means to be a parent, a partner, and a provider – sometimes all at once, often imperfectly, but always with heart.

Along the way, you’ll find treks through wild coastlines and the messy beauty of newborn life, honest reckonings with ego and effort, and reflections on how small choices (– in love, in parenting, in being present –) shape a life well lived. They do shine a light on the winding path of my self-improvement and continuing emotional resilience.

Sixteen Kilometre Coast Trek on Kangaroo Island ( – 30 May 2005)
A rugged recount of a 16km coastal walk on Kangaroo Island, revealing physical endurance and nature’s unpredictable moods. The hike offers not just physical challenge but also introspection, solitude, and appreciation for the island’s wild beauty.

Life is So Habit Forming ( – 04 Jul 2008)
A witty reflection on daily routines and how easily they embed themselves in life. It questions whether habits help us thrive or trap us, offering a light philosophical nudge to break monotony.

Fifty Weird Things About Me ( – 06 Sep 2008)
A fun listicle of personal oddities, quirks, and unique preferences. This post adds a cheeky human face to the blog’s deeper reflections, showing the author’s comfort with vulnerability and humour.

Six Stories Tall ( – 26 Nov 2008)
A reflective piece on personal growth, family legacy, and feeling small in the face of generational depth. Using metaphors and memory, it builds a tall tale grounded in personal truth.

All Groaned Up ( – 12 Feb 2011)
A humorous take on adulting, responsibility, and how we never really feel “grown-up.” It’s a gentle dig at maturity, acknowledging its challenges while embracing its inevitability.

Will it be a Boy or a Girl? ( – 31 May 2012)
A tender moment in parenting: wondering, hoping, and imagining who your unborn child might be. The excitement is palpable, underscored by love and the unknown journey ahead.

And Now We Are Three ( – 13 Jun 2012)
The emotional arrival of a new family member, shared with raw honesty and pride. This post captures the shift from couple to family, and the quiet joy of holding new life.

Little Boy with Little Hands ( – 18 Jun 2012)
A poetic snapshot of fatherhood, watching your child discover the world with tiny hands and wide eyes. It’s a meditation on awe, connection, and growing up – both the child and the parent.

How Vulnerability Helped Me Find Myself ( – 20 Jul 2012)
A heartfelt confession about how embracing emotional openness led to self-discovery. It’s about removing armor, facing fears, and rebuilding confidence with authenticity.

I am Dad ( – 17 Jan 2013)
An affirmation of fatherhood, warts and all. This post shows the messy, magical reality of being a dad – equal parts chaos and deep fulfillment.

Birth 2 – Our Second Son ( – 03 Mar 2015)
The arrival of a second child, rich with emotion, pride, and exhaustion. This entry balances the familiar chaos of newborn life with awe at the miracle of family expansion.

For My Wife ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A romantic ode wrapped in real-life partnership. It’s not about grand gestures, but about consistency, kindness, and having each other’s back every day.

An Introspective – Never the Narcissist ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A soul-searching piece challenging the label of narcissism. It’s a deep dive into self-awareness, responsibility, and owning one’s flaws while growing through them.

Becoming a Better Person and Partner ( – 27 Oct 2023)
Self-improvement framed through the lens of love. It’s about levelling up emotionally, learning from missteps, and committing to growth within a relationship.

Becoming a Better Partner, Parent and Person ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A broader reflection on juggling multiple roles in life and doing justice to each. It’s about integration, not balance, and the daily act of trying again.

Building a Stronger Connection with 67 Questions ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A practical framework to deepen intimacy with your partner through conversation. The post champions curiosity, empathy, and emotional presence over grand declarations.

Eight Ways a Man Can Show His Maturity ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A bloke’s guide to levelling up emotionally. These tips challenge old-school masculinity and redefine maturity as patience, reflection, and kindness.

BIG changes to My Life ( – 27 Oct 2023)
A milestone post about change, challenge, and choice. It details the upheaval and courage required to reset life’s compass and chase better days.

Your Husband – Always Support, Never Servitude ( – 01 Nov 2023)
A powerful statement about respectful partnership. It sets boundaries on outdated gender roles and champions mutual respect and support.

In Praise of My Amazing Wife ( – 02 Nov 2023)
A loving tribute that highlights appreciation, admiration, and awe. It’s about seeing the small everyday efforts that make love sustainable.

Don’t Quit Until It’s Over ( – 06 Nov 2023)
An energising reminder to persist. Life might throw curveballs, but this post cheers the resilience of keeping your head up and feet moving.

Rebuilding the Man Within ( – 20 Nov 2023)
A deep, honest look at reinventing oneself after struggle. It’s about tearing down internal walls, rediscovering purpose, and becoming stronger without losing softness.

Finding My Way Back to Happiness ( – 17 Aug 2024)
An emotional GPS for rediscovering joy. This entry chronicles the setbacks, self-doubt, and rediscovery of what truly brings light to a dark day.

Wants, Needs, Desires & Expectations in Love ( – 03 Jul 2024)
A thoughtful breakdown of what we ask for – and give – in love. It teases apart the messiness of expectations and reminds us to speak plainly and love generously.

Embracing Imperfection & Unconditional Support ( – 17 Oct 2024)
A heartfelt meditation on loving without conditions. It’s about seeing flaws and choosing connection anyway – because perfection is a myth, but love is real.

Writing these articles helped me in the moments I needed them most. Sharing them reminds me who I am: a parent, a partner, a bloke just trying to do his best.

More than anything, they’ve become a mirror and a map – showing me where I’ve been and where I want to go. I’d never want this role – this life – to end too soon.

Here’s to showing up, doing the work, loving loudly, failing quietly, sometimes starting again – one post, one day, one honest moment at a time.

_{POSTSCRIPT: This article has been written to remind myself and the people around me that it’s not over, not by a long shot, and not for a long time!}