After seeing another story somewhere about a person asking ChatGPT what it would do if it were declared President of the United States, I decided to turn the question around and ask it something a little closer to home: โIf you were to become Prime Minister of Australia, what changes would you make?โ I was... Continue Reading →
Their Wellbeing Still Matters To Me
One of the stranger lessons I've learnt since separating my wife is simply this: Just because a marriage ends doesn't mean my responsibilities end with it. I don't mean financial obligations or legal arrangements. Those have their place. I'm talking about something less tangible. The wellbeing of our children and their mother still matters to... Continue Reading →
Why WordPress Still Gets My Vote After 20 Years
I've been using WordPress for nearly 20 years. During that time I've redesigned my own blog more times than I care to admit, tinkered with themes, broken the odd thing, fixed it again, and generally learned by doing. Even after all these years, I'd still be the first to admit I haven't explored every corner... Continue Reading →
I Am Going To Be OK
This thought hit me out of nowhere today: I don't need a partner anymore. Not in a bitter way. Not because I've given up on relationships. I simply realised I'm actually and genuinely okay. Life isn't perfect, yet I am going to be okay. A year ago, I wasn't sure I'd ever say that. After... Continue Reading →
Finding Peace and Happiness Without Religion
Iโve never followed a god. Never felt the need to kneel or pray to something unseen. But Iโve always admired the quiet simplicity found in Buddhist teachings - not the ritual or the robes, just the way they live. Thereโs something deeply human about it. For me, spirituality isnโt about worship or belief. Itโs about... Continue Reading →
Why I’d Vote Cannabis Again
I voted for the Marijuana Party as a teenager. Hereโs why I still would. Iโve been voting for the Marijuana Party, or whatever version of it happened to appear on the ballot, since I was old enough to vote. Back then, it felt half cheeky, half defiant. Youโre young, you see a list of parties... Continue Reading →
It’s Time to Cull the Corellas on Kangaroo Island!
A few days ago, I shared a short video showing the scale of the corella flocks around both the Kingscote and Parndana Campuses, and now into the surrounding streets and trees. Thousands of birds. Eating, sleeping, shitting, squabbling, and procreating like theyโve signed a long-term lease. Every evening they descend on the grass, roost in... Continue Reading →
Why Artificial Intelligence Matters IMHO
Recently, I asked ChatGPT to talk about a subject itโs deeply invested in โ itself. What came back wasnโt flashy or self-important, but calm, measured, and quietly impressive. It described artificial intelligence as the craft of teaching machines to think, learn, and decide in ways that echo human reasoning. No hype. No doom-saying. Just a... Continue Reading →
Grey Divorce is NOT Freedom When Youโre The One Left Behind
Choosing separation is EASY; Living with the aftermath is Not Before anyone nods along too easily with the popular narrative around grey separation, itโs worth slowing the tape. This article by Spicy Auntie paints later-life divorce as a kind of moral awakening for women who are "finally choosing themselves". From where I stand, it often... Continue Reading →
10 Suitable Lights for Solo Accommodation
Recently, whilst shifting into 'solo accommodation', a realisation struck: I donโt own a single side lamp. Not for my desk, not for the lounge. So, naturally, I fell into the rabbit-hole of a late-night Google search - and here are the results, displaying quite a few floor and table lamps that peaked my interest! Lighting... Continue Reading →
One Big Room โ Just the Way Life Should Be
This evening, on my walk home from my old house (~ the one where my separated-wife and our children still live) my thoughts drifted to the spaces that divide all of us. Walls and barricades, both physical and emotional, shape our conversations, our silences, even our memories. Somewhere between the streetlights and the cool night... Continue Reading →
Trump Muzzling Australian Good-Accountability Yet Again!
Donald Trump has done it again. Instead of answering a question, heโs picked a fight. Yet this target wasnโt an American rival or a late-night comedian โ it was Australian journalist John Lyons. The ABC reporter asked about Trumpโs wealth - and instead of dealing in facts, Trump reached for the oldest trick in his... Continue Reading →