I’m confident there’ll be another relationship in my future. Not in a rushed or desperate way, just a steady belief that connection comes around again when you’re ready for it. And when it does, I’ll be walking into it with a clearer idea of what matters most. For me, that means keeping communication up front... Continue Reading →
My Life with XXY
Not Broken, Just Wired Different I want to put this here, in my own words, for those who might need to hear it. At age 44, I was diagnosed with Klinefelter syndrome (XXY). It all started with one simple, honest question from my then-wife: “Why can’t we have kids?” That led to tests, those tests... Continue Reading →
25 Articles About Being a Parent, Partner, and Provider
These 25 articles are more than just entries in a blog – they’re footprints in the sand along the journey of my life up to this point, marking moments of love, loss, growth, and grit. Written across two decades, each piece captures the evolving story of what it means to be a parent, a partner,... Continue Reading →
Mindful, But Not Sorry – Embracing My True Self
As I head into 2025, reflecting on a year full of ups and downs, I’ve learned some valuable lessons. Yet the most important one is this: Vulnerability isn’t about winning or losing – it’s about showing up, being authentic, and allowing yourself to truly be seen. That’s something I’ve come to appreciate, whether I’m volunteering... Continue Reading →
12 Principles for Living My Best Life
Over the past few years, I've realised and learnt these twelve guiding principles, and now I'm actively applying them in my life every day: Embracing Each Moment's Worth:I have learned to live fully, relishing each moment by staying present and finding joy in every thing I do, all whilst embracing life's beauty. Setting My Priorities... Continue Reading →
Why I Still Blog in 2024
For me, blogging isn't just about spinning tales or sharing cold, hard facts. It's a canvas where I paint the vivid picture of my entrepreneurial and family life – the highs, the practical nitty-gritty, and the pearls of wisdom mined from the trenches of real-world battles. I weave stories that go beyond the office and... Continue Reading →
Rising Above the Self-Pity Waves
I want to open up about my path to self-improvement and how it's not just making me a better person and partner, but also boosting my self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-value, while strengthening the foundation of my 25-year relationship with my beloved wife. Recently, during my quiet moments of reading and reflection, I had an eye-opening... Continue Reading →
The Sleep Struggle for Outdoor Working Dads
I can't stress enough the importance of sleep for Dads like me who work outdoors. It's a struggle, let me tell you. The long hours under the sun, braving the elements – it's all part of the job. But what many don't realize is the constant battle to get a good night's sleep. There's a... Continue Reading →
The Heroic Responsibilities of Fathers: Balancing Love and Guidance
In the realm of superhero movies and comic books, the iconic line, "With great power comes great responsibility," is often attributed to Spider-Man. This timeless wisdom is not only relevant to the world of web-slingers but also holds true in the everyday lives of Fathers. Just like superheroes, Dads have an array of roles and... Continue Reading →