Since around 1996, I've accumulated a rather varied collection of hobbies and interests. Some have grown into small businesses, some have stayed hobbies, and others have quietly fallen by the wayside. Most of them come from the same source: I'm a creative type, and my brain is nearly always in high gear. I'm forever thinking... Continue Reading →
From Radio Microphone To Window Squeegee: Why I Finally Get KIBBA
Iโve been cleaning windows on Kangaroo Island since 2018. Flyscreens. Window tracks. The lot. I do it so everyone has a clear view. Oh, and Iโm also a volunteer radio presenter at 5KIxFM 90.7. And now, Iโm a KIBBA member. For quite a while I thought the Kangaroo Island Business and Brand Alliance (KIBBA) was... Continue Reading →
Good Reasons to Be Thankful
Over the last few months I have compiled an interesting and life-changing list of the many things in my life I SHOULD be, COULD be and WILL be thankful for: Things I should be thankful for: These are the solid, already-in-my-hands realities. The stuff thatโs quietly doing the heavy lifting. I am alive, functional, and... Continue Reading →
Recognising my Depression, Returning to Happy
Over the past week (1-6 Feb 2026) , I barely left the house. Partly because I could afford to - a decent window cleaning job bought me some breathing room - yet mostly because I didnโt have the energy to be anywhere else. I lay on the lounge, eyes open, staring into space while the... Continue Reading →
20+ Years of Blogging
In 2016โฆ Almost 10 years ago I said Iโd been blogging online for 10 years โ but it was actually longer than that. Way back in 1999, I was just jotting down thoughts and publishing them as separate pages on my Telstra personal page. Those pages donโt exist anymore. From memory, I then moved to... Continue Reading →
A Message To Young Couples: Talk Often, Openly, & Honestly
If I could give one piece of advice to younger couples just starting out, it would be this: Talk. Talk about everything. Not just the big-ticket stuff like money, family, or plans for the future - include the small, awkward things too. The things that feel too petty or too complicated to bring up. Your... Continue Reading →
How Iโm Approaching My Next Relationship
Iโm confident thereโll be another relationship in my future. Not in a rushed or desperate way, just a steady belief that connection comes around again when youโre ready for it. And when it does, Iโll be walking into it with a clearer idea of what matters most. For me, that means keeping communication up front... Continue Reading →
3 Questions at Sunrise that Created my New Life
Itโs a strange comfort, isnโt it? Living in a time where you can speak your thoughts out loud - messy, meandering, unfiltered - and have them typed out for you in seconds. No more scribbling on napkins or searching for pens that donโt work. You just speak, and there it is. Your truth, staring back... Continue Reading →
Letting Go: The Value of Decluttering My Life
A thought crossed my mind last night whilst listening to Jimmy Carr chatting with Stephen Bartlett about his reflections on life, particularly about all of us wanting more, yet less discontent in the moment, and enjoying the moments we have the chance to live. A few months ago, after a life-changing moment, I culled over... Continue Reading →
Things That Get Better With Age
I have found a question that needs a longer answer than just a few words: Daily writing promptWhat do you think gets better with age?View all responses Iโve lived enough years now to see the truth behind the old saying: Some things really do get better with age. Hereโs what Iโve found actually gets better... Continue Reading →
Maybe the Universe Whispers, Not Shouts
Iโve lived most of my life believing things happen because we either make them happen or we learn to deal with them when they donโt. Cause and effect. Effort and consequence. But latelyโฆ Iโve been noticing things. Not changes, just seemingly unrelated events that seem to echo each other just enough to make me pause.... Continue Reading →
Tough Budgeting Tips as a Single Man (Again) Saving for a New Future
Turns out, the greatest financial wisdom shows up when life guts you clean and youโre left rebuilding from ground zero. These days, Iโm a single bloke on Kangaroo Island, running a window cleaning business that brings in about a grand a week - some weeks only half that. I clock maybe 10โ20 hours, then spend... Continue Reading →