As I prepared for the day last Friday, I caught a glimpse of my left side in a window reflection. It was a bit startling, to be honest! I hadn’t realized how much weight I’d put on, particularly around my waist. Wearing elastic-top shorts most days, I guess I hadn’t noticed the gradual increase in size. I know it’s my own doing – I often indulge in treats as a way to reward myself for a job well done. It’s a habit I can’t deny :( .
Back in 2022, I had embarked on a health journey that saw me shed about 13 kilograms over 6 months – a period I remember vividly. Walking every morning and most evenings, lifting small dumb-bells regularly, plus basic floor exercises – I felt great to lose so much weight!
However, earlier this year, after facing another bout of frustration and sadness, I slipped back into old eating patterns. So, yet again, I’ve made a decision to tackle this weight gain and improve myself.
Reflecting on that moment in front of the mirror, I realize it’s not just about appearances – it’s about feeling better physically and mentally. I’m determined to regain the discipline. Reading great websites on the matter, I devised this simple set of six great tips to boost my physical health and improve my mental well-being.

- Begin Your Day with Positivity and Purpose
There isn’t a universal solution for finding motivation and purpose, but discovering what gives your life meaning can help you navigate even the toughest times.
- Focus on Healthy Eating, Starting with Breakfast
I’ve learnt and realised that breakfast is the most crucial meal of the day. What I consume after waking up is a great kick start to my work day.
Some days I have time to create a fantastic fruit smoothie that also includes hemp powder, some mornings it’s as simple as a banana, boiled egg and double shot of OJ to drown my morning pills.
- Incorporate Exercise into Your Routine
My evenings now incorporate walking our dog, a kelpie/collie cross, who has boundless amounts of energy. I’d like to return to morning walks, but I am still working on that! Earlier nights to get a fully nights sleep are important, but I still love my Netflix-binge nights, so that’s still being worked upon!
Now that my yoga mat displays a bunch of abdominal, arm and leg exercises, I spend about 20 minutes before bed. Whilst probably not the best time (eww, smelly sweaty body!), it’s a great way to let go of tight muscles after a long day of work. I am going to have to amend that timeslot!

- Engage in Social Activities
I took a long break from social connections, yet realise they are vital for my mental health. Spending time with people who share my interests, plus continuing as a volunteer radio presenter acts as an excellent buffer against negative thoughts and their effects on my mental health. I’ve learnt that interactive socializing enhances various types of relationships.
- Make Time for Yourself
Engaging in various art projects – in particular my photography and illustrations, plus watching positive and funny Netflix movies can have a positive impact. I’ve discovered these enjoyable activities stimulate my brain’s reward system, contributing to feelings of happiness and pleasure, which in turns affects emotions and produces better memories – which in turn makes me want for more time for myself. The perfect circle!
- Prioritize Quality Sleep
Good grief, it’s taking me only 35 years to realise that good sleep improves brain health.
Poor pre-sleep habits have too often disrupted the actual rest-time my brain actually should have got. Instead of excessive time on my computer or smartphone, I really need to create a relaxing wind-down routine by turning off electronics and dimming the lights. Quality sleep also enhances emotional connections, promoting feelings of trust, loyalty, and positive bonds with others.

Some might call this a yo-yo effect, but I truly believe I can turn things around this time. The difference now is that I’ve got a bigger goal in mind—staying alive and healthy for my family. I also want to be fit enough for certain activities I’d like to enjoy more often (you know what I mean, wink).
And honestly, it would be nice to tie my shoelaces without running out of breath!
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