This post was sparked by a friend's recent question on Facebook. She asked, “Anyone else have NOTHING saved to their start menu and NOTHING on their desktop?” Turns out, she’s the lone digital minimalist in her office. Everyone else? Desktop icons galore, random files everywhere, and not a clue about proper directory structure. How to... Continue Reading →
Tough Budgeting Tips as a Single Man (Again) Saving for a New Future
Turns out, the greatest financial wisdom shows up when life guts you clean and you’re left rebuilding from ground zero. These days, I’m a single bloke on Kangaroo Island, running a window cleaning business that brings in about a grand a week - some weeks only half that. I clock maybe 10–20 hours, then spend... Continue Reading →
25 Articles About Being a Parent, Partner, and Provider
These 25 articles are more than just entries in a blog – they’re footprints in the sand along the journey of my life up to this point, marking moments of love, loss, growth, and grit. Written across two decades, each piece captures the evolving story of what it means to be a parent, a partner,... Continue Reading →
Speech-to-Text Should Be FREE for People with Disabilities
I’ve always been a fast typist, yet recently, with my right hand bandaged up, I’ve had to rely on speech-to-text more than ever. Let me tell you, it’s been an eye-opener. While my phone and tablet offer built-in voice-to-text features, my computer (where I do most of my work) offers next to nothing. Unless I... Continue Reading →
Dealing with FAKE Accounts on Social Media
First off, let me explain why I’m sharing this with you. This goes way back - to the days of IRC, AOL, and forums, where online identities were rarely what they seemed. I spent countless hours diving into IRC (Internet Relay Chat) and chatting on forums with thousands of interesting characters. During that time, I... Continue Reading →
Why I Need a Life Mission: My Guide to Not Drifting Aimlessly
I used to feel like I was stuck in neutral, just coasting through life without a clear direction. It was like I was at a buffet of life choices but couldn’t decide what to put on my plate. Sound familiar? Well, I realized that what I was missing was a crucial ingredient: a life mission.... Continue Reading →
Marriage and Small Businesses: A Parallel Journey
I've come to see that being in a relationship is akin to running a successful small business. It's a thrilling journey that demands dedication, resilience, and a good sense of humor - because let's face it, there are ups and downs at every stage. In the beginning, it's like stepping into a fairy tale. Everything... Continue Reading →
Creating My NEW Daily Mantra
Life has a way of throwing curve-balls at us, and I've certainly had my share of moments feeling overwhelmed and out of sorts. Through trial and error, I've found a simple mantra that helps me navigate these common emotions and find my inner calm. It's all about shifting focus and finding the right activity to... Continue Reading →
My NEW Affirmations for 2024
In 2024, I've come to realize the immense power of embracing a growth mindset. It's not always the easiest path to take, but I've found it to be absolutely crucial for both my happiness and success ↙. Let me delve a bit deeper into why this shift in thinking can make such a significant impact... Continue Reading →
My Window Cleaning Service is MUCH More Than the Hours I Work
After six years of honing my window-cleaning technique, I've become faster and more efficient without compromising quality. This has made me realize that relying solely on hourly rates can harm any business profit margin. I've recently recognised that I need to shift the focus from the hourly-price to the value of the service provided, thereby... Continue Reading →
12 Principles for Living My Best Life
Over the past few years, I've realised and learnt these twelve guiding principles, and now I'm actively applying them in my life every day: Embracing Each Moment's Worth:I have learned to live fully, relishing each moment by staying present and finding joy in every thing I do, all whilst embracing life's beauty. Setting My Priorities... Continue Reading →
How I Got My Business and Personal Mindset Back in Sync
Let’s be real — life is NOT a leisurely stroll down the jetty. It’s more like juggling chainsaws while riding a unicycle uphill… in the rain. Ever felt like this? Struggling to finish what you start? Procrastination has set up a tent in your head? Waking up more knackered than when you hit the pillow?... Continue Reading →
[…] with XXY, and alone now, has taught me that my brain is wired differently to most – yet I…
[…] Living with XXY, and alone now, has taught me that my brain is wired differently to most – yet…